Acknowledging the silent grief of childlessness
The causes vary: Infertility and unsuccessful treatment are the biggest cited reasons, and no partner is also a significant reason, but smaller statistically.There are underlying social issues for this like postponing pregnancy or not finding a partner.
The important point I want to get across is the increased need for acknowledgment of this significant loss. We need improved support and the acceptance of society to not judge and exclude those who suffer from this. But to listen, learn and include them.
If you had hoped to become a parent, coming to the realisation that you won't be able to have a child can be incredibly painful. For many, it follows moths or often years of trying for a baby and undergoing infertility treatments. People who have faced these challenges previously, describe that the news can represent the loss of an imagined future - and the life and dreams they had planned. Know that you are not alone, and there are a number of organisations, support groups and spokespeople to help you if you are struggling.
Here are just a few:
Julia
